Jose Reyes Has Been Honored for His Off-Field Behavior

Known primarily for his work as the former executive director of the MLBPA, Marvin Miller was an NYU-educated economist by training. His efforts as union head eventually led to the elimination of the reserve clause and start of free agency for MLB players. It was Miller who negotiated the players’ very first collective bargaining agreement, brought arbitration to professional sports, and did all of this despite contending with anti-semitism from the team owners on the other side of the bargaining table and a disability leaving him with limited use of his right arm. Miller was called by Hank Aaron “as important to the history of baseball as Jackie Robinson.”

In light of Miller’s relevance to the livelihoods of its members, it’s not surprising that the MLBPA makes some effort not only to preserve his legacy but also to honor those who continue it. To that end, the union gives an award every year for off-field service and community leadership. The Marvin Miller Man of the Year Award, started in 1997 and rebooted in 2000, is considered “one of baseball’s top honors[.]” The award is based on popular vote by the players, with the recipient being the teammate whom the voters “most respect based on his leadership on the field and in the community.” Each team has its own top vote-getter honored by the MLBPA.

In 2017, the list of top vote-getters contained an impressive collection of players notable not just for their exploits on the field, but for their charity work off of it, as well.

Among [2017]’s nominees are players involved in providing clean water and other necessities to poverty-stricken villages in remote parts of the world, supporting the needs of servicemen and women and their families, building schools, ensuring clothing and meals for inner-city poor,  raising funds for research and respite to cancer victims and their families,  rescuing abandoned and mistreated animals,  and sending truckloads of emergency supplies to victims of natural disasters.

While the Marvin Miller Award itself honors just a single player per year, each team’s top vote-getter receives a $2,500 grant among other honors.

The overall winner of the prestigious award, named for the founding executive director of the Major League Baseball Players Association, will receive a grant for $50,000. Grants of $10,000 and $5,000 go to the players who place second and third, and the leading vote recipient from each club (listed below) will receive a $2,500 grant.

Additionally, the 2018 Player of the Year will receive a $50,000 grant and the eight league-wide Players Choice Award winners will receive grants of $20,000 each.  Runners-up in all categories receive $10,000 and third-place finishers $5,000.

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Just as in 2017, many of this year’s team representatives contributed towards worthy causes. You can see the whole list of credentials for yourself, but here’s a small sampling:

Nelson Cruz – Seattle Mariners

Nelson’s compassion ranges from promoting education to ensuring the most vulnerable people of his hometown of Las Matas de Santa Cruz in the Dominican Republic have the necessities to lead safe, healthy lives. To date, he has sent two ambulances, a fire truck, wheel chairs, medicines, school supplies and baseball equipment back home and he is currently raising money to build a police precinct on property he purchased.

Colorado Rockies – Ian Desmond

For every RBI and run scored in May, Ian donated $1,000 to the Children’s Tumor Foundation. He drove in 15 runs and knocked in 14 runs that month. CTF aims to end Neurofibromatosis, and Desmond has regularly fundraised and organized events in support of CTF.

Corey Knebel – Milwaukee Brewers

Corey’s charitable efforts go towards animal care and children living with disabilities. He has contributed to multiple charitable foundations, including the Miracle League of Milwaukee All-Star Game, Autism Speaks, the Brewers Community Foundation and Love Your Melon.

Mike Trout – Los Angeles Angels

Since 2016, Mike has served as an ambassador for Big Brothers Big Sisters of Orange County, using his platform as an MLB superstar to educate the community about the value of the organization’s one-to-one mentoring programs. His role is to enhance recruitment efforts through social media advocacy, marketing and fundraising. Trout has also made monetary and equipment donations to his hometown Millville Thunderbolt Club, which supports Millville (NJ) High School athletic programs.

Adam Jones – Baltimore Orioles

Throughout his big-league career, Adam has enthusiastically advocated for the empowerment of Baltimore’s local youth. Working closely with The Boys & Girls Clubs of Baltimore, Jones has helped provide local youth with educational opportunities that have helped kids achieve academic success, develop financial literacy and ultimately pursue higher education. He has also donated funds to Living Classrooms, Stocks in the Future, Harlem Lacrosse, Sharp Dressed Man and the Baltimore Urban Baseball Association.

You get the idea. Of the nominees, 29 are noted for their charity work for causes ranging from melanoma (Freddie Freeman) to muscular dystrophy (Rhys Hoskins) to pediatric cancer (Mookie Betts). Victor Martinez helped Make-A-Wish foundation grant the wish of a child with cancer. Martin Prado funds student-athletes. Ryan Zimmerman funds multiple sclerosis research. I could go on, but the point is that the list is largely a who’s who of men with a significant, positive community impact. All 29 appear to be worthy selections.

You’ll notice I said “all 29.” That’s not a typo. Because while basically every one of the award’s team representatives seems to have made some real contribution in the community, one player’s resume appears to offer less in the way of philanthropic bona fides.

The Mets’ top vote-getter for the Marvin Miller Award is Jose Reyes, and even the write-up for Reyes seems unconvinced that he belongs among this particular group of players.

Jose Reyes – New York Mets

In his 16th season, Jose earned the respect of his teammates with the professionalism he demonstrated in transitioning from everyday player to role player. He took on the responsibility of mentoring young players, including the Mets’ promising young shortstop Amed Rosario.

Where all 29 other entries directly cite some manner of work in the community, Reyes’s does not. Some earnest research reveals no charitable efforts that might be appropriate for inclusion here.

Nor is it as though the Mets were bereft of players qualified for recognition. David Wright managed to repeatedly attend charitable events despite his ongoing rehab. Michael Conforto, meanwhile, visited children in the hospital, and Noah Syndergaard funded a baseball camp for underprivileged kids. Those sorts of endeavors seem to be much more in the spirit of the honor than the acceptance of a reduced role, however cheerfully undertaken.

More to the point, there’s this: while the argument in favor of such a recognition for Reyes appears rather weak, the argument against it seems pretty robust. Reyes, of course, received a 52-game suspension when he choked his wife and threw her into a glass sliding door in a Hawaii hotel, leading to his arrest. The attack was sufficiently disturbing that the hotel staff called 911. A year later, Reyes was sued by Christina Sanchez for his failure to pay her the full amount of his court-ordered child support. He had a child with Sanchez after he was already married to wife Katherine Ramirez.

To find out what Reyes had done to merit the honor, I reached out to the MLBPA, which declined comment through a spokesperson. I also reached out to several Mets players, none of whom responded. In addition, I contacted KPMG, the accounting firm which tabulated the votes; they also provided no comment. The New York baseball media seemed just as confused with the selection, the New York Daily News writing bluntly:

There’s really only one award that should be unequivocally given to a Met this season. And it’s the Cy Young to Jacob deGrom.

It most definitely is not the Marvin Miller Man of the Year Award, for which Jose Reyes was selected as the Mets’ representative on Friday.

FanGraphs’ own Dan Szymborski added probably the best take I’ve seen, as follows.

The first rule of holes is one quite familiar to lawyers and laypeople alike: when you’re in one, stop digging. Justified or not, Major League Baseball — and, specifically, some MLB players — have dug MLB a bit of a hole regarding women as fans. Earlier this year, Jeva Lange wrote a piece for The Week entitled “Women Love Baseball. Why Doesn’t Baseball Love Them Back? in which she states that “MLB’s disregard for the women in the stands extends to its treatment of alleged domestic abusers in the game.” Since then, we’ve seen Addison Russell suspended for domestic violence, and the Astros circumvent their own purported zero tolerance policy to acquire Roberto Osuna while he was suspended for domestic violence. In other words, a perception exists that MLB has a domestic-violence problem.

Under the circumstances, it would seem that Reyes — whatever counsel he provided to Amed Rosario — isn’t the ideal person to honor for a group that is also attempting to fight the perception that they’re insufficiently tough on domestic abusers. In the looming labor strife between MLB and the MLBPA, the union will need public opinion. Public relations experts tell you that perception is reality, and incidents like this will just make that public support harder to obtain. Beyond that, praise for alleged domestic abusers has a negative impact on the report of such abuse, suggesting that an accolade such as this one for Reyes might negative impacts we never see.

The first rule of holes is to stop digging. Voting for Reyes forces the MLBPA and its members further down into this particular hole. What’s more, it was entirely avoidable.





Sheryl Ring is a litigation attorney and General Counsel at Open Communities, a non-profit legal aid agency in the Chicago suburbs. You can reach her on twitter at @Ring_Sheryl. The opinions expressed here are solely the author's. This post is intended for informational purposes only and is not intended as legal advice.

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Sammy Sooser
7 years ago

“We have a zero tolerance policy unless we can really get him on the cheap, he beat the crap out of his significant other while on another team, and when he shows up, he’s completely remorseless.”

Boy, are the Astros checking boxes. As for Reyes – what can you say, at this point? Death, taxes, and lolMets.

nickcarter
7 years ago
Reply to  Sammy Sooser

Here are the facts about reyes the virus 1) 2007 and 2008 biggest collapses in MLB history Reyes hit under 200 during both collapses and made everyone lose focus and urgency. 2) the blue Jays were under 500 with Reyes then they got rid of him and they started to win and went to the ALCS 2 years in a row 3)Rockies got 16 games worse after they acquired Reyes 4)The Marlins got rid of Reyes in the first year of a 5 year contract 5)2017 mets underachieving disaster 22 games under 500 with Reyes 6)2018 once again disaster, overall 30 games under 500 since Reyes returned. 7)last game Shea stadium history loss with Reyes. First game citi field history loss with Reyes. Reyes is the rare athlete that infects guys around him his laughing and overall personality doesn’t allow guys to have the right mindset to perform at their highest capabilities which is why the biggest collapses in history happened with Reyes . it’s been 2 decades of the same disaster result. Mets were in the World Series in 2015 before he showed up

Reflect
7 years ago
Reply to  nickcarter

I gotta hand it to you, whatever the hell this is, you are very consistent at it.

ryanredsox
7 years ago

Following the Mets makes me the question the limits of human stupidity

HappyFunBallMember since 2019
7 years ago
Reply to  ryanredsox

In their defense, they thought they were voting for the Montgomery Burns Award for Outstanding Achievement in the Field of Excellence

Alex Trebek
7 years ago
Reply to  HappyFunBall

And he might win if he’d shave those sideburns!

Moltar
7 years ago

The Mets are an organization devoid of accountability.

Captain Tenneal
7 years ago

The only thing I can possibly think of is that all the other Mets planned this as some sort of weird public shaming thing?

southie
7 years ago

This. The guy still has cuts in his eyebrows and is pushing 40. He wears his hat to the side and generally acts like a teenager on Aderall in the dugout. I assume that gets old very fast.

Captain Tenneal
7 years ago
Reply to  southie

Well, I was kind of implying that the shaming was about his tendency to abuse his wife.

southie
7 years ago

First time ever then. He’s a douche. There have likely been 100s of guys who have gotten knowingly physical with their wives but teammates didn’t view them as entitled, immature degenerates. That can’t help him.

sadtromboneMember since 2020
7 years ago

It might be a little unfair to blame the MLBPA as a group for this one, since the players on the Mets voted for him.

But those Mets players, what was going on there? I assume the player rep explains the criteria for the vote? And who is the player rep there, anyway? I thought it was Matt Harvey, but he’s not on the team anymore.

Sammy Sooser
7 years ago
Reply to  sadtrombone

Though I think the blame lies squarely with the Mets players for how they voted in the first place, they did, in fact, vote incorrectly. The MLBPA staff/president could have kicked it back to the Mets players, citing the lack of significant off the field contributions, which renders him unqualified as a candidate. Instead, the MLBPA, fairly or unfairly, gets attached to this by tacitly approving his inclusion. It’s their award, their press release, and, ultimately, their image.

Moltar
7 years ago
Reply to  sadtrombone

Per Craig Calcaterra on twitter, players on all teams vote for players league wide, so it wasn’t just Mets players that voted for him. But I think it’s safe to presume that a large number of Mets players did vote for him, which might show just how bad that clubhouse is these days.

You’d think that if they were going to overlook Matz’s First Responders charity or Syndergaard’s youth baseball camps (that gave him foot and mouth disease!), they would go for low hanging fruit like Wright’s return (Wright also does a large amount of charity work).

Roger McDowell Hot Foot
7 years ago

Of course I agree with the general tenor of this piece but it seems extremely weird to shoehorn an extramarital affair resulting in the birth of a child — a private matter that I couldn’t care less about — into a paragraph listing the guy’s otherwise serious moral (and potentially criminal) transgressions.

johansantana17Member since 2026
7 years ago

Some people think cheating on your spouse is immoral, not sure about you.

Roger McDowell Hot Foot
7 years ago
Reply to  johansantana17

And some people see an obvious problem with inviting professional organizations to police people’s private lives. Not sure about you.

johansantana17Member since 2026
7 years ago

Domestic violence isn’t a private matter?

Roger McDowell Hot Foot
7 years ago
Reply to  johansantana17

No, it isn’t. This is such a deliberate and tendentious misreading that there’s no possible way to respond further in good faith.

johansantana17Member since 2026
7 years ago

You say we shouldn’t care about private matters like cheating on someone’s wife, but we should care about matters like hitting someone’s wife. I’m genuinely wondering where your line is and why it is there, because it makes no sense to me.

Also, this award is for off-the-field conduct, so I’m not sure why any private matters should be off limits.

Sn0wman
7 years ago
Reply to  johansantana17

We can’t seriously be debating whether or not there is a difference between betraying someone’s trust and actually physically harming that person… right? Right?

Yirmiyahu
7 years ago

Well, the award in question is specifically in regards to players’ off-field behavior, or “private matters” that have nothing to do with the game of baseball. And, even if it doesn’t rise to the level of domestic violence, cheating on one’s wife and failing to pay child support is pretty much the polar opposite of being a generous and upstanding community leader.

Roger McDowell Hot Foot
7 years ago
Reply to  Yirmiyahu

The failure to pay child support is a separate matter, of course. There is an obvious distinction between private life and public life involved in the suggestion that whom Reyes slept with when should be a part of judging whether he deserves an award for community service, and it’s pretty ridiculous to pretend not to see it.

Managing to Statistics
7 years ago

Infidelity is neither victimless nor unavoidable. I don’t think there’s anything ridiculous about choosing not to honour someone who’s made that choice for his community service work (or, apparently, lack thereof) when there are other, worthy candidates to support.

Roger McDowell Hot Foot
7 years ago

Some baseball players, as we know, subscribe to codes of sexual morality by which a lot of other things might be disqualifying, in their view, in exactly the same way that this is disqualifying, in yours. I would invite you to consider how you’d respond to someone if they said they’d voted against honoring a player with an award because he was gay, or because he was promiscuous, or because he had premarital sex, or whatever else. After all, there are other, worthy candidates to support!

johansantana17Member since 2026
7 years ago

Lol you heard it here first – cheating on your spouse is just like being gay! You have a seriously messed up sense of morality.

Roger McDowell Hot Foot
7 years ago
Reply to  johansantana17

I said before that your misreading was deliberate but I’m starting to think better of that. In any case there’s no way to respond productively to this level of blatant, baffling misunderstanding.

CL1NTMember since 2025
7 years ago
Reply to  johansantana17

No he is just trying super duper hard to be devil’s advocate, and it’s pathetic. Their is absolutely no other way to look at this…

Reyes has done piece-of-shit things and is in no way shape or form deserving of any award (on or off the field).

And Sherylles’s inclusion of his affair and failure to pay child support is not ridiculous. She is informing us that he indeed doesn’t deserve this award.. which is the whole point of the article!

kylesch87
7 years ago

Conflating consensual sex with whomever you choose with cheating on a non-consenting spouse is the problem here Roger. If Jose Reyes’ wife is fine with him sleeping around (maybe they have an open relationship) then I would agree that it isn’t anyone else’s business. If he is breaking her trust then that is a moral issue. Promising to someone that you will only sleep with them and then breaking that promise is bad because it is dishonest and hurtful.

Roger McDowell Hot Foot
7 years ago
Reply to  kylesch87

I am not saying I personally disagree, nor am I “conflating” anything, I’m just pointing out that, where you think you have good reasons for your sexual morality, Daniel Murphy also thinks that he has good reasons for his. Everyone does. The principled stance that private sexual morality isn’t fair game as a criterion for a professional award isn’t changed by anyone’s contention that theirs is the one right and true sexual morality, including yours (or mine).

Managing to Statistics
7 years ago

At the risk of being pedantic, I’d actually challenge the notion that everyone thinks he has good reasons for their sexual morality. Some people really are assholes.

I think kylesch articulated my viewpoint quite well. If you’re standing by your faulty analogy of homosexuality and infidelity I’m not interested in further engaging, sorry.

Roger McDowell Hot Foot
7 years ago

The idea that I made any analogy whatsoever between the two is what’s faulty here, but I also have no interest in further engaging with the level of reading comprehension on display here, so… peace.

Jon L.Member since 2016
7 years ago

Just to let others know, if you’re having trouble downvoting “Roger”‘s comments, reloading the page seems to help.

Richard Bergstrom
7 years ago

He was sued for failing to pay child support. That is a serious moral and criminal transgression, so it was definitely on topic and not a shoehorn.

CL1NTMember since 2025
7 years ago

Exactly. But today’s society is filled with people that feel like morals should be voluntary. You can think that and teach your kids that, but don’t expect the rest of the world to accept you for anything other then a piece of shit.

CL1NTMember since 2025
7 years ago

Oh, it’s not weird…

Bobby Ayala
7 years ago

If the Mets players voted for him, maybe could we possibly consider that they felt he was the most deserving player on the team under the perimeters of the award as presented to them? The allegations against him highlighted in this article all happened during prior years, not 2018, and this award represents what he did in 2018. I’m sure the players weren’t handed a note with the ballot that said “don’t vote for anyone who’s had charges brought against them, or who tweeted something racist when they were 17, etc.” We’re not in the clubhouse everyday, we’re not seeing whatever work he’s putting into himself. Maybe Reyes has actually improved himself, learned from his mistakes, and has taken significant steps toward making the world a better place around him? Maybe his teammates who are with him everyday know better than we do?

CC AFCMember since 2016
7 years ago
Reply to  Bobby Ayala

“Parameters” is the word you were looking for there.

Did the Mets not have ANYONE better than that? I feel like “Noah Syndergaard is handsome and jacked” is a better reason to nominate him, even if he didn’t do any community work, than “Jose didn’t complain about not starting every game and, also, he hasn’t slammed his wife into a glass door…this year…that we know of.”

The speculative statements about whether he “improved himself, learned from his mistakes, and has taken significant steps toward making the world a better place” are facially not the reasons he was nominated by the Mets.

sadtromboneMember since 2020
7 years ago
Reply to  CC AFC

I love that part of the press release: “He didn’t complain about not starting every game.” He slashed .189/.260/.320. At this stage in his career, Jose Reyes is Alcides Escobar except he’s also bad at defense.

And I get that he and Amed Rosario are good buddies, but if I had to guess which player had a bigger role in his development, I’d guess Jose Bautista (who has a track record of this kind of thing).

oozyalbies1
7 years ago
Reply to  sadtrombone

But isn’t that the point of the award? And the original comment? Not to guess, but to let the other players acknowledge one another for what they actually observe?

To be clear, I have never liked Jose Reyes.

Bobby Ayala
7 years ago
Reply to  CC AFC

“Factually” is the word you’re looking for there.

And we don’t know why the players voted for him, my point. I don’t care what the press release says, that was probably written by a marketing assistant who understood they had to do some damage control.

CC AFCMember since 2016
7 years ago
Reply to  Bobby Ayala

Nope, I meant “facially,” as in, the reasons you speculatively claimed the Mets voted for him are not the reasons he was voted for “on the face” of the document stating the reasons for the votes. Nice attempt to “save face,” though.

oozyalbies1
7 years ago
Reply to  CC AFC

#BAITED

“The award is based on popular vote by the players, with the recipient being the teammate whom the voters ‘most respect based on his leadership on the field and in the community.'”

Based on the portion referring to leadership, perhaps the reasons Bobby Ayala had speculated are facially the reasons his teammates voted for him?

Cannot verify presently if I am understanding the meaning of “facially” correctly. I am on a work network and am too afraid to Google it…

FillmoreMember since 2018
7 years ago
Reply to  oozyalbies1

We know better than his teammates that it was a bad idea to nominate a domestic abuser for a public-facing award like this, and that is really all that matters here.

You can quote the exact wording of the award description all you like. It doesn’t hold up once you run it through the “use common sense and don’t be stupid” filter.

oozyalbies1
7 years ago
Reply to  Fillmore

I only quoted the exact wording of the award description in order to better validate the facially-ness of the original comment.

I do not like Jose Reyes, and would not dream of defending his candidacy for this award. I haven’t liked him for baseball reasons, some of which you can see down-voted below, since long before I had any off-field reasons not to. That said, I don’t know that it’s fair to deride his teammates for overlooking his past transgressions when nominating him for the award. But also, I don’t much care

Lastly, it’s funny to critique my use of quotation, despite its accuracy, based on the purpose you assumed behind it, when there are literally other quotes in this thread which are purportedly from the press release which are inaccurate.

All about perspective, I guess. Better to be wrong, as long as you’re on the right side of the argument!

But, again, I don’t really care one way or the other.

FillmoreMember since 2018
7 years ago
Reply to  oozyalbies1

That this is a news story we are aware of shows that it’s a public-facing award. (I’m not using the word “facially” because I’ve literally never heard that word before in this context and it sounds dumb.) You really don’t need to overthink this.

The Mets should have been well aware of that fact during their voting process, and voted accordingly.

oozyalbies1
7 years ago
Reply to  oozyalbies1

The title of the article is also a bit disingenuous in this regard.

“Jose Reyes Has Been Honored for His Off-Field Behavior”

“The award is based on popular vote by the players, with the recipient being the teammate whom the voters ‘most respect based on his leadership on the field…'”

So it’s facially 50/50?

vonstott
7 years ago
Reply to  oozyalbies1

I’ll take “Ellipses used in the most misleading way possible” for $400, Alex!

oozyalbies1
7 years ago
Reply to  vonstott

I stopped at that point to try to better highlight the “on the field” portion of the excerpt, which I’m realizing now was probably less effective than including the whole thing.

I do acknowledge immediately thereafter that the “on the field” portion is 50% of the award criteria spelled out, which should serve as proof that I was not intending to mislead that it was the only criterion.

Unlike the title of the article… Which is intentionally misleading… And literally ignorant…

FillmoreMember since 2018
7 years ago
Reply to  Bobby Ayala

No, the ballot did not specify that players with domestic violence charges against them were disqualified. It shouldn’t have had to, because MLB players are supposed to be grownups. They should be smart enough to know that nominating such a person sends a bad message to the community, especially considering we’ve been given no explanation for his nomination other than he demonstrated “professionalism” and “mentored young players”. I’m all for nuance and redemption, but the Mets are representing MLB with their votes. “How it looks” matters, and the Mets players dropped the ball. And that’s the best case scenario, taking into account your rosiest possible outlook that Reyes is genuinely taking steps to reform and the players want to recognize him for it. We have no reason to believe that right now.

Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  Fillmore

If you’ve ever seen players during a rain delay you know they are far from grown ups, my dude.

johansantana17Member since 2026
7 years ago

This is confounding and disappointing.

Youppi!
7 years ago

maybe for the mets n equaled 1

oozyalbies1
7 years ago

For a guy who:

1. Took himself out of the last game of the season
2. When at (or near) the peak of his prime
3. In his first last game as a Met
4. In front of a home crowd who actually LOVED him
5. In order to secure a Batting Title
6. In order to secure a bonus check
7. Before departing in Free Agency

I don’t think we should be all that surprised that he handled his benching at this stage of his career gracefully. He still got paid for showing up, right? I’m sure he confirmed.

D4PMember since 2019
7 years ago

Sounds like baseball’s equivalent of a “We Forgive You Award”.

tung_twista
7 years ago

Judging by the write-up, it sounds like Ahmed Rosario was so grateful that he managed to convince all his friends to vote for Jose Reyes. At least, that is the only reasonable explanation I can come up with.

Also, one thing I learned is that MLB players are not very good at voting.
Case in point: In 2016, Altuve received 84 votes for the Sporting News player of the year award.
Trout, the eventual AL MVP winner, received 22 votes which is lower than Betts, Ortiz, Bryant, and Murphy.

Jon
7 years ago
Reply to  tung_twista

Not just players!

Signed,
Rafael Palmeiro, 1999 AL Glove Glove Winner as voted upon by managers and coaches

timprov
7 years ago
Reply to  tung_twista

“Not very good at voting” by what standard? How are we defining replacement-level? I think a case could be made that choosing the sixth-best candidate available makes them above-average when compared to most other democratic systems.

TulkasMember since 2020
7 years ago

Correct me if I’m wrong, but this award is specifically for the last year, correct? So while I completely agree that this is a curious choice by any measure, I don’t think it’s fair to bring up his domestic abuse situation from 3 years ago or his extramarital affair.

I mean, when Reyes abused his wife he wasn’t even on the Mets. Right or wrong, but I highly doubt that that the average Mets player is thinking about that when deciding their personal feelings about him as a person. That said, it’s abundantly clear that even if we do wipe Reyes’s slate completely clear for some reason, he’s still a poor choice for the award.

CC AFCMember since 2016
7 years ago
Reply to  Tulkas

I get what you’re saying, but the award is ultimately a marketing device to generate positive PR for your entertainment product right?

So if that’s the case, it’d be awfully weird to just wipe everything clean ahead of the calendar year. Otherwise you’d wind up with absurd results like “Our 2018 Film Producers Man of the Year is Harvey Weinstein! This year, he stepped down from his position after personal struggles, went to rehabilitation to address his problems, then turned himself in peacefully to police. He has not assaulted or harassed anyone that we know of in this calendar year! It doesn’t matter what he did before January 1, 2018!”

TulkasMember since 2020
7 years ago
Reply to  CC AFC

Yes and no. There is real value in reforming behavior, especially if it was a single isolated incident from 3 years ago. That’s not really a fair comparison with Harvey Weinstein, who took advantage of dozens of people over the course of decades. Again, I’m not saying he deserves the award by any measure, but really I just don’t see how his non-repeating domestic violence issue from 3 years ago with another team is especially relevant to this discussion. It’s just a lazy opportunity to take another dig at DV offenders simply because we can.

Richard Bergstrom
7 years ago
Reply to  Tulkas

He abused his wife. And he cheated on his wife. And he failed to pay child support. If that doesn’t affect a player’s personal feelings for him, considering many players get offended over something as innocuous as a bat flip or an untucked jersey, I don’t know what would.

CL1NTMember since 2025
7 years ago

This!

fjtorres
7 years ago

Forget it Jake. It’s the Mets.

LongTimeFan
7 years ago

Reyes has made amends and has undergone extensive counseling in the aftermath of the domestic violence situation that resulted in his arrest and MLB suspension.

People change and Reyes has worked hard on doing so. His wife and family have forgiven him, and so have I and plenty other Mets fans. Forgiving shouldn’t be confused with forgetting. I don’t forget but I also believe that people can change – and that those who work hard and are authentic in their quest, warrant a second chance which Reyes has gotten.

Moreover, according to those who voted for him, he has since shown himself worthy and I trust them. to make that call.

fjtorres
7 years ago
Reply to  LongTimeFan

The issue isn’t really Reyes; it’s the team’s tone-deafness.

LongTimeFan
7 years ago
Reply to  fjtorres

I bet among the Anti-Reyes-Shouldn’t-Be-Nominated-Crowd-, are a bunch of people who voted for and support Donald Trump who, as we’ve all heard in his own words, admits to sexual predation against many women and is darn proud of it. Talk about tone deaf.

nickcarter
7 years ago
Reply to  LongTimeFan

Reyes is a poison to every clubhouse

nickcarter
7 years ago
Reply to  fjtorres

The issue is Reyes he is a poison to every clubhouse

nickcarter
7 years ago
Reply to  LongTimeFan

That’s why every team that had Reyes significantly underachieved. So no I don’t trust them there is a reason those teammates finished in 4th place again with Reyes

Knoblaublah
7 years ago

Hey Rowley, why did you edit “April Fool’s!” from the end of this piece or publish it in October?

If this is true, it must be because Sidd Finch wasn’t eligible.

carterMember since 2020
7 years ago

I’m pretty sure it was a joke. Clearly a bad one. However it’s specifically for the past year, which would be akin to using 2017s stats for 2018 MVP voting.

nickcarter
7 years ago

There is a reason no team has been able to win with Reyes

nickcarter
7 years ago

Reyes makes guys lose urgency he makes guys lose focus. He messes up everyone’s timing. He makes guys lose their competitive edge which is why After they blue Jays got rid of Reyes they started to win and went to alcs 2 years in a row .

ND12
7 years ago

“Beyond that, praise for alleged domestic abusers has a negative impact on the report of such abuse, suggesting that an accolade such as this one for Reyes might negative impacts we never see.”

This line of thought doesn’t make any sense to me. The logical conclusion of this is that, basically, it’s immoral to praise Reyes for any reason. If he had a strong season in 2018 instead of being garbage, would it have been immoral to vote him to the All-Star game?

Didn’t Reyes serve a 51-game suspension, which cost him over $7M in earnings? If that’s not “taking domestic violence seriously” on MLB’s part, what is? Capital punishment?

People who commit offenses like Reyes’s need to be re-integrated into society. I don’t see how the idea of “don’t praise someone – ever – if he/she is known to have committed abuse” is compatible with re-integrating these people.

nickcarter
7 years ago
Reply to  ND12

facts about reyes the virus 1) 2007 and 2008 biggest collapses in MLB history Reyes hit under 200 during both collapses and made everyone lose focus and urgency. 2) the blue Jays were under 500 with Reyes then they got rid of him and they started to win and went to the ALCS 2 years in a row 3)Rockies got 16 games worse after they acquired Reyes 4)The Marlins got rid of Reyes in the first year of a 5 year contract 5)2017 mets underachieving disaster 22 games under 500 with Reyes 6)2018 once again disaster, overall 30 games under 500 since Reyes returned. 7)last game Shea stadium history loss with Reyes. First game citi field history loss with Reyes. Reyes is the rare athlete that infects guys around him his laughing and overall personality doesn’t allow guys to have the right mindset to perform at their highest capabilities which is why the biggest collapses in history happened with Reyes . it’s been 2 decades of the same disaster result. Mets were in the World Series in 2015 before he showed up

Richard Bergstrom
7 years ago
Reply to  ND12

There’s a big difference between being reintegrated into society and being a celebrity paid millions of dollars to play a game. Besides, though he “lost” $7M in earnings, he still got the $22M for the second year of his contract when the Rockies released him.

It’s not that Reyes should not be praised for any reason (though I think he shouldn’t), but on one count, he has to earn it. On a second count, he should show he’s learned from his mistakes by doing things such as paying for child support. Third, getting an award for off the field behavior after he’s beaten his wife, cheated on his wife, then won’t live up to his obligations as a father _does_ discourage other women from coming forward because they do not see any form of justice taking place.

OddBall Herrera
7 years ago

I get the principle of the article, but can we not pretend nearly anyone takes the “this award is one of baseball’s top honors” thing at all seriously?

How many people here could have named this award before the Reyes thing came up? I couldn’t – this certainly is a bad look, but no one takes it seriously enough for this to be some sort of emergency. In fact, if anything, Reyes’ vote is probably more proof that the players don’t give a damn about good citizenship awards than that they don’t give a damn about abuse.

nickcarter
7 years ago

Here are the facts about reyes the virus 1) 2007 and 2008 biggest collapses in MLB history Reyes hit under 200 during both collapses and made everyone lose focus and urgency. 2) the blue Jays were under 500 with Reyes then they got rid of him and they started to win and went to the ALCS 2 years in a row 3)Rockies got 16 games worse after they acquired Reyes 4)The Marlins got rid of Reyes in the first year of a 5 year contract 5)2017 mets underachieving disaster 22 games under 500 with Reyes 6)2018 once again disaster, overall 30 games under 500 since Reyes returned. 7)last game Shea stadium history loss with Reyes. First game citi field history loss with Reyes. Reyes is the rare athlete that infects guys around him his laughing and overall personality doesn’t allow guys to have the right mindset to perform at their highest capabilities which is why the biggest collapses in history happened with Reyes . it’s been 2 decades of the same disaster result. Mets were in the World Series in 2015 before he showed up

Reflect
7 years ago

The 2018 Marvin Miller award is for the recognition of behavior in 2018. Everything that happened before 2018 is not relevant. It’s a yearly award, that’s why “Man of the YEAR” is in the title. Do you consider 2014 performance relevant to this year’s Cy Young Award?

There’s an argument to be made that being suspended for DV should make a player ineligible to ever win a future award again. I could agree with that argument, but you didn’t make that argument.

I do agree that other current Mets players have done more in 2018 to be more deserving of the award. Other than that, this reads like a bitter hit piece with very little in the way of objective and rational analysis. That’s not to say that no good arguments exist for opposing Reyes’ selection for this award. Just to say that no good arguments exist on this page.

nickcarter
7 years ago
Reply to  Reflect

2018 laughed all day including when the team was losing. Batted 189. Bleached hair acted unprofessional before every game posting videos in clubhouse. Made guys lose focus . He’s poison

cjbrassa
7 years ago

So the Mets players seem to hold a great deal of respect for Jose Reyes as a man. They know him better than any of us do. Maybe he’s actually a good guy who made a mistake years ago.

nickcarter
7 years ago
Reply to  cjbrassa

Notice those players finished in 4th place with Reyes. You literally priced why no team has ever been able to win with Reyes he is a terrible influence

nickcarter
7 years ago

reyes the virus 1) 2007 and 2008 biggest collapses in MLB history Reyes hit under 200 during both collapses and made everyone lose focus and urgency. 2) the blue Jays were under 500 with Reyes then they got rid of him and they started to win and went to the ALCS 2 years in a row 3)Rockies got 16 games worse after they acquired Reyes 4)The Marlins got rid of Reyes in the first year of a 5 year contract 5)2017 mets underachieving disaster 22 games under 500 with Reyes 6)2018 once again disaster, overall 30 games under 500 since Reyes returned. 7)last game Shea stadium history loss with Reyes. First game citi field history loss with Reyes. Reyes is the rare athlete that infects guys around him his laughing and overall personality doesn’t allow guys to have the right mindset to perform at their highest capabilities which is why the biggest collapses in history happened with Reyes . it’s been 2 decades of the same disaster result. Mets were in the World Series in 2015 before he showed up

Rollie's MustacheMember since 2017
7 years ago

This Reyes announcement on the same day that Dayton Moore is laying more ground work to sign Luke Heimlich? Gimme a break, baseball. Be better.

Mean Mr. Mustard
7 years ago

Reyes is a joke.

Stevil
7 years ago

No offense, Sheryl, but you missed an obvious, common link between Cruz and Reyes: ambulances.