What Can We Really Say About Josh Hamilton?

Last night, Gerry Fraley of the Dallas Morning News reported that Josh Hamilton was spotted drinking at a local area bar on Monday evening. According to the report, Ian Kinsler appeared at some point and tried to convince Hamilton to leave. Beyond that, we don’t really know much. In fact, including that information, I’d argue that we don’t really know much.

I’m conflicted about even writing about this, to be honest. Yes, it’s news, and we try to provide analysis and commentary about things going on in the news, but what can we really say about Hamilton’s battle to remain sober? I have no insight into addiction or what a relapse might mean for a recovering addict. There might be people who can speak about what could be inferred from Hamilton falling off the wagon, but as far as I know, no one on staff is an expert on alcoholism. I’m certainly not, and I don’t feel qualified to have any kind of opinion on what this news means for Hamilton’s sobriety.

I was tempted to write about what this might mean for Hamilton’s potential chances for a contract extension, since that’s a bit more up our alley, but anything we said would really just be baseless speculation. To actually know how this might affect the Rangers desire to give Hamilton a long term contract, we’d need access to information that only they’re privy to – his drug test schedule and results, his resolve to get back on the wagon, and what steps he’s willing to take to ensure that this doesn’t become a recurring issue.

We don’t know any of that. In all honestly, we don’t really know anything. The only thing I’m comfortable saying about this news is that I hope Josh Hamilton wins his battle with alcohol and that the sport is better when he’s playing at a high level. Whether you root for the Rangers or not, Josh Hamilton is worth rooting for.





Dave is the Managing Editor of FanGraphs.

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Jon
14 years ago

Responsibly covered. thanks.

Jason
14 years ago
Reply to  Jon

I don’t know about that.

Jason
14 years ago
Reply to  Jason

“I don’t know about that.”

This is a joke people. Dave keeps saying how we can’t really know about this or that not making any declarative statements and the first reply is a declarative statement. Get it now?

Jason
14 years ago
Reply to  Jon

This man needs to be drummed out of baseball. I’m tired of thugs like josh hamilton using our Lord’s name to hide his sinful life! This man won’t stop sinning until he kills himself or someone else!

Get him out of Baseball!

Brandon
14 years ago
Reply to  Jason

Judge not..

Nic
14 years ago
Reply to  Jason

Relax, Jason. He plays a kids game for a living. Don’t take yourself so seriously.

Chauncey Gardner
14 years ago
Reply to  Jason

I’m pretty sure a huge tenant of Christianity is forgiveness. Perhaps you should work on turning a cheek or two before whipping around stones as though you’re without blemish. But maybe I’m wrong, it’s been a decade or so since I was confirmed, may have forgotten a few things since then.

Colm
14 years ago
Reply to  Jason

Was that intended to be a joke?

mike
14 years ago
Reply to  Jason

youre a fucking douchebag!

ben
14 years ago
Reply to  Jon

He didn’t cover anything. He just said “addiction is a touchey subject, and I don’t really know how to cover it.” Why even write this post, then? Just to prove that you’re a level-headed, compassionate person?

Jonathan
14 years ago
Reply to  ben

To cut off the innevitable “why isn’t Fangraphs talking about what is obviously a potentially huge matter in the baseball world.”

This incident has wide reaching potential implications, but the key word is potential. With as little as is out there for facts, it would be irresponsible for Dave to report otherwise as a person, but at the same time it’s irresponsible as a journalist to stay completely silent. This is basically the middle ground.

Shane
14 years ago

Well written. There’s been so many stupid things written about this trying to make it about the union, his contract, religion, etc. Leave it at what it is. It’s sad to see, and I hope he stays sober for the sake of him, his loved ones and the sport. He makes baseball better.

AL Eastbound
14 years ago

He will still be a hot commodity in the off-season so hopefully he keeps it together.

Jim
14 years ago

Its obvious we dont know what happened, but here is a recent Tweet from Josh Hamilton’s wife: Katie Hamilton @KandJHamilton:

Truly appreciate all the encouraging & supportive tweets we’ve been getting. God is Faithful and forgives- so thankful that you all are Showing us such love and encouragement during this time.

jaywrong
14 years ago

For what it’s worth, Alcoholism and Drug addiction are separate issues, and one falling off the wagon shouldn’t necessarily mean the other is happening.

I’m not trying to correct anything, but I think it’s important we keep the two issues separate.

BDF
14 years ago
Reply to  jaywrong

What’s the basis for your claim that they’re separate issues? That they’re different substances and using one doesn’t require that you’re using the other? That’s true, although it’s relevant evidence in trying to make that determination, but it’s also moot, because the underlying disease is addiction. If Hamilton is in his addictive process then his life is in jeopardy regardless of whether it’s beer, whiskey, marijuana, cocaine, or morphine.

Matt
14 years ago
Reply to  BDF

Yeah, I have to agree that they aren’t entirely distinct and/or separate issues. As someone who comes from a family with substance issues, it is EXTREMELY easy for addicts to relapse into drug use when they begin impairing their judgment, even slightly, with alcohol.

It’s very common for a recovering addict to have a beer or two or three and then think, “hey, y’know, what hurt could one line/hit/fix do?”

While I do think a lot of our culture’s hang-ups about drugs — specifically, the whole “gateway” drug myth — are overblown and very generalized, I tend to believe that that applies more to first time drinkers/users. But for those with a history of drug dependency and the collateral damage it brings, a beer or two usually are the first slick spots on a very slippery slope.

Preston
14 years ago
Reply to  BDF

How do you know that Josh Hamilton isn’t an alcoholic? Most drug abusers also abused alcohol. In any event almost all rehab programs would require that you not drink again either, because anything that blurs your judgement makes you more likely to relapse. Even if alcohol isn’t his “problem” the fact that he would drink when he knows he shouldn’t shows a lack of self control, and a propensity to still deal with stress through alcohol and drugs. Now I don’t think one night means all that much in his long term sobriety, what really matters is how he reacts to it. If he says I had some beers and was fine, it’s no big deal, then it’s a long term problem. If he realizes he made a mistake and continues whatever addiction program he’s in then he’s fine.

jaywrong
14 years ago
Reply to  BDF

Its good points you guys raise. My initial reaction was this; He was legally drinking alcohol. I don’t think we should treat it as if he was snorting lines in a hotel room.

On top of that, based on my experiences volunteering at a methadone clinic in LA, I believe that Alcoholism victims, to a degree, has a better success rate of being helped and cured than those who are addicted to certain controlled substances.

I want to keep them separate because I believe one is more serious than the other, along with the fact that we cannot assume that his wagon fall here led to a wagon fall with substances.

the hottest stove
14 years ago
Reply to  BDF

The misconception that drinking and drugging are separate has led to countless lost battles in rehab.

a) By drinking any alcohol during rehab, the person is weakening their ability to responsibly control their own rehab, and putting themself in a difficult circumstance. Bandura says the battle against relapse is already lost at this point.

b) Even worse, if you are drinking to get drunk, you are seeking to alter your reality or seeking a feeling of satiation, and probably substituting the alcohol for the drug. This is the same as using the original drug.

Drinking and drugging are the same thing….at least when concerning an addict.

Anon
14 years ago
Reply to  BDF

Re: jaywrong

Alcoholism victims

You can’t be a victim to alcoholism. Victim means someone else has harmed to you without cause.
You can be an alcoholic or an addict.

John
14 years ago
Reply to  BDF

Anon, an alcoholic is an addict.

EarlSweatshirt
14 years ago
Reply to  jaywrong

Not to keep beating this issue, but the two are completely related. It’s certainly possible that he could continue to just drink, but he’d be a major outlier, and every day/week/month he continued to drink, the more likely he is to use again. Many people have substance problems and develop alcohol problems later in life. It isn’t usually the addiction to a substance, but the lack of coping skills, and the person will take whatever substance to fill that void. There is no real predictive way to analyze this situation (assuming the report is true), I’ll just hope for the best.

bluejaysstatsgeek
14 years ago
Reply to  EarlSweatshirt

Substance abuse and addictions can involve almost anything. Internet Addiction, Sexual Addiction, Food Addition (Chronic Overeating), Alcoholism, Drug Addiction can all be destructive and harmful not just to the addict, but to others as well. To make it worse, society – and therefore, the addict – gets bombarded with media messages almost constantly. Fun is drinking with your buds. Guys having fun have scantly-dressed, well-endowed ladies serving the drinks. Food is everywhere with the addictive sugars and fats. You have to be in touch with your buds every waking hour via smartphone or Internet. We have become slaves to living in the moment. I don’t have the statistics, but an addition doctor I know says the proportion of society showing addictive behaviours is staggering.

Instead of being judgmental, let’s hope Josh gets the help he needs. He is a great talent, and it would be a shame to see it wasted.

Thurston24
14 years ago
Reply to  EarlSweatshirt

For those who are saying drug addiction and alcoholism are separate things are mistaken. I come from an alcoholic family with my mother going through treatment multiple times. The last center she went through trained the family as well. What we were taught is that those addictions are one in the same. So if you intend to stay sober you need to avoid both.

Monster Mike
14 years ago

I can only imagine how hard it is for Josh to stay sober while being a MVP sport player with constant coverage. Surrounded by a male sport where celebrations revolve around alcohol.

Too bad Wilson is no longer on the team, as he is straight-edge (drug & alcohol free lifestyle). He would be a great help to Hamilton, as a sponser/accountability partner/etc.

But as a recovering addict myself, I know how hard it is to stay clean. It truly is something that needs to be taken day by day. It’s easy for us to cast judgement on him, and say thats it’s easy or he should be more responsible, but by him being a professional athlete, an already hard journey is multiplied ten-
fold.

I wish him all the best.

TK
14 years ago
Reply to  Monster Mike

Casting judgment isn’t easy; it takes a lot out of a person.

Bill
14 years ago
Reply to  Monster Mike

But CJ would have him all hopped-up on Monster energy drinks. “Ya, know brah? They are like totally intense!”.

Jake
14 years ago
Reply to  Bill

I got a good laugh out of your comment because I played baseball this past summer with a recovering addict who loved Monster, and that’s actually how he talks. But it also shows that Monster isn’t bad for addicts.

Socal Baseball
14 years ago

I really hope Josh wins this battle with alcohol. Not for the game of baseball but for his family. He is a husband and father to three young girls. The Rangers can always replace Hamilton and move on. His family can’t.

I also hope he wins this battle because I know he has been such an inspiration for others who have/are battling addiction and alcoholism.

Baseball is just a game. This is Josh Hamilton and his family’s lives at stake. I hope that he gets the help and support he needs. I will be rooting for Josh Hamilton the person.

the hottest stove
14 years ago
Reply to  Socal Baseball

Great insight socal. Appropriate perspective is so hard to find these days, especially in sports and entertainment. Be a husband and father first, then be a baseball player if you can responsibly do both. This story aside, I think Hamilton understands this…

Anon
14 years ago
Reply to  Socal Baseball

This. If Hamilton can’t stay responsible for his family because of his job, quit the job. His career earnings according to baseball-reference is more than $13M (not counting a 2012 salary of $13M+). If he can’t provide for his family with that, he has bigger problems that addiction.

Hatfield
14 years ago
Reply to  Anon

Apparently the last thing he needs is more free time.

Pelly
14 years ago

Here is hoping he is back on the wagon and 4 day’s into his new sobriety. I do know that the last time he fell off, he followed it up with his MVP season(a year later?). As an owner of a $21 Hamilton in my keeper league, I do hope this was a hiccup and he keeps on pushing forward.

Eminor3rd
14 years ago

Why cover something you don’t even want to cover and don’t plan to really write about? I appreciate your attempt to get stuff up that covers headlines, but I don’t think anyone comes to FanGraphs to just get the beat and no content at all. I’d rather you write what you feel compelled to actually write about rather than put something up just for the sake of putting it up, then spend 300 words telling us you don;t have anything to say but felt like you should say something.

bstar
14 years ago
Reply to  Eminor3rd

Eminor,
This is a new-style Fangraphs article. Instead of writing long, in-depth articles on things that might possibly happen but havent yet, they are writing shorter, less wordy articles on stuff that hasnt happened yet, or in this case something they have little info about. For me, yeah, I want a little more meat on the bone, but in this case, knowing so little, I think the lack of depth was appropriate.

BDF
14 years ago
Reply to  Eminor3rd

This is also such huge news that it’s incumbent on FG to say *something*, even if it’s that they don’t have much to say.

West
14 years ago

I’m shocked he didn’t fall off the wagon right after game six……

All kidding aside, baseball is a business and if I’m running a business I’m not giving a big contract to someone who constantly has to battle with addiction. An addiction so bad that he can’t carry cash with him. Next offseason I would look to replace him. I wish him the best.

TheGrandslamwichMember since 2020
14 years ago

Kinsler has always been a talented player, but I definitely add some +respect for doing what he could to help a team mate with a personal issue.
Hopefully Hamilton will come out of this healthy and ready to play some ball.

Socal Baseball
14 years ago

Yeah. I don’t know if you watched the excellent ESPN documentary Unguarded about Chris Herren the former NBA player and addict.

When he was with the Nuggets, Nick Van Exel, Antonio McDyess, George McCloud and Popeye Jones refused to let him go out or drink alcohol. One of them would stay in with him each night.

Before hearing that I always hated Nick Van Exel. I have nothing but respect for the guy now.

Hamilton’s accountability partner, Jerry Narron, left the Ranger’s organization to become the hitting coach for the Brewers. I hope the Rangers tried to match whatever the Brewers are paying Narron.

Cidron
14 years ago

in an ESPN article, http://espn.go.com/dallas/mlb/story/_/id/7535200/texas-rangers-outfielder-josh-hamilton-relapse-alcohol (by Richard Durrett, espndallas.com)

It has Jerry Narron as his “accountability partner” until he left to take the position of hitting coach with Milwaukee. There is no mention of an immediate replacement, other than Hamilton’s father in law, once the father-in-law’s daughter finishes high-school (no date on that). So, assuming Jun 1 as that time, Josh is without someone to watch over him (as a “accountability partner”) until that time, approximately 4 months from now.

IMO, having “family” (even an in-law) as that accountability partner, while supportive, and able to be around often, also can be counter to a fix. That person might lack the objectivity enough to enforce a desired habit/pattern. In short, the father in law may become an enabler, rather than a helper. Not sure if this is a good thing long-term. Obviously it isn’t short term. Maybe Ian Kinsler (who appeared in the event), or Michael Young (respected voice on the team) as players would do better in this role.

Socal Baseball
14 years ago
Reply to  Cidron

His father in law, Michael Chadwick, was one of the first people to help Hamilton try and get clean back in 2003.

He is a recovered addict himself. Hamilton showed up at his door at 2 AM in 2003 seeking his help back even though they had never met before. Hamilton had only heard of Chadwick’s story through Chadwick’s daughter who had he previously dated years ago.

I hope the Rangers can find someone in the short term but Chadwick is probably the person Hamilton needs most right now.

Cidron
14 years ago
Reply to  Socal Baseball

ok, that I did not know. And, withdraw my concerns regarding him. The upside on him, not mentioned earlier is that he wont be taking any positions as hitting coach elsewheres, etc. He will be around a while (well, as long as any -in laws are)

Socal Baseball
14 years ago
Reply to  Socal Baseball

Yeah, Cidron. I still don’t know what I would do if I were in Chadwick’s shoes. He does have his own young daughter and company to worry about.

As much as he loves Josh and Josh is family, following the Rangers everywhere they go is monumental commitment and sacrifice.

This is why these problems are so much harder for athletes. If Josh Hamilton was some lawyer in Los Angeles, the solution would be for him to move to NC where Chadwick lives.

Part of me wants Hamilton to retire and focus on his family and recovery. He has made enough money. His life and his family’s lives are more important than a game.

The professional sports culture with the lack of normal routine, stability, pressure, etc is probably the worst environment for a recovering addict to be in.

vivalajeter
14 years ago

“I’m conflicted about even writing about this, to be honest.”

I’m surprised that you wrote about this too. How dare you beat Alex Remington to the punch 🙂

Not Rick Reilly
14 years ago

So, is today a good day to be an atheist?

West
14 years ago

God was busy protecting Tebow from pornstars in Vegas.

DavidCEisen
14 years ago

Yes, because religion has something to do with this.

chuckb
14 years ago

Every day’s a good day to be an atheist.

Socal Baseball
14 years ago
Reply to  chuckb

Except for the day you die

DavidCEisen
14 years ago
Reply to  chuckb

I’m fairly certain thats a shitty day for everyone.

Oregon Nut Cups
14 years ago

The scary thing about this is everyone wants to make it about drugs/alcohol, i.e. ‘bad’ addictions. Hamilton has an addictive personality; it is the way his brain is wired in that he can’t get enough of something that makes him feel ‘good’. In my opinion, its what got him to become an elite athlete and originally saved him from his bad addiction by replacing it with what is seen as a good addiction: baseball.

I wish him and his family nothing but the best. I truly fear what happens when baseball can no longer subsume him for months on end, pushing the bad addictions away.

Sandy Kazmir
14 years ago

Can’t wait until this charlatan plows through a family on his way home.

arch support
14 years ago
Reply to  Sandy Kazmir

What the hell dude.

Sandy Kazmir
14 years ago
Reply to  arch support

Nick Adenhart would still be here if it weren’t for entitled scumbags like Josh Hamilton. Get off his dick and realize what a piece of shit he is.

Sandy Kazmir
14 years ago
Reply to  arch support

Pretty sad that at least 12 people support vehicular manslaughter due to operator impairment. I hope I don’t share the road with you heathens.

DavidCEisen
14 years ago
Reply to  arch support

Wow, not only are you an asshole but you are homophobic (or at least feel fine denigrating homosexuals to insult people).

Hamilton has issues, but at least he recognizes them. He didn’t go drinking out of a sense of entitlement; he went drinking because he has addiction problems. It’s not an excuse nor is his behavior to be exemplified, but his struggle to stay on the wagon is worthy of respect.

Also you are the asshole wanting him to kill people. Probably just so you can feel superior to addicts and say: “I told you so.”

You must think Scott Kazmir is still a great pitcher, too
14 years ago
Reply to  Sandy Kazmir

You’ve got quite the scoop. Why waste in it in a fangraphs comment? There haven’t been any reports that he drove home drunk.

jim
14 years ago
Reply to  Sandy Kazmir

good god, i read draysbay and i knew you were a dick, but holy shit dude

Oregon Nut Cups
14 years ago
Reply to  Sandy Kazmir

Looks like you’ve learned how to make arguments by watching those DirecTV commercials. Don’t wake up in a road side ditch, Sandy; it would break my flipping heart.

chuckb
14 years ago
Reply to  Sandy Kazmir

You can’t wait for that?

There’s something seriously wrong with you.

Rob
14 years ago
Reply to  Sandy Kazmir

Has Josh Hamilton ever even had a dui?

china_dave
14 years ago

if you feel you shouldn’t be writing about something, don’t

Gary York
14 years ago

For what it’s worth, there are also a host of science-based recovery programs. According to some studies some are more effective than 12-step programs. A few of the studies even offer the possibility of social or moderate drinking after the treatment is over. I am not advocating for any treatment, but it is important to realize that some programs eschew the “addictive personality” paradigm in favor of a behavior oriented one.

This relieves some people of the burden of thinking that their make-up is somehow defective.

Google “non-12 step recovery programs” for a host of different approaches.

I mention this in the hope that some of you will stop referring to people with alcohol addition programs as “pieces of crap” or religious hypocrites. A science-based baseball blog should be beyond that.

Bigmouth
14 years ago

Puts into perspective his complaints about people “medicating” in the bleachers at Willie Mays Park during the World Series. Have to admit, I feel a little guilty for goofing on the guy.

Cliff B
14 years ago

No time to read the comments. Here’s my 2 cents.

Good at least it was alcohol and not crack cocaine. I’m sure when he’s on a good long sober stretch, he feels great about being sober.

There are times when the devil calls. Don’t really know why or when, but he does.

He will be ok.

pft
14 years ago

I would not sign Hamilton to long years and big dollars w/o an opt out clause and stipulation he be monitored 24/7 for the duration of the contract. If that’s not possible, he should be kept Y2Y.

Also, physically his injury track record is like JD Drew, so he should be paid no more than Drew was.

TheGrandslamwichMember since 2020
14 years ago
Reply to  pft

I would hardly consider that punishment, but maybe I should ask Drew’s 3rd house…

Drew
14 years ago

Imagine espn writing something like this. Every news story on their site would be the same.

MikeS
14 years ago

Obviously this is unsubstantiated but it raises the point of how should the Rangers or any other team protect themselves? Definitely try to make sure you can void the contract for insobriety and allow ownership to test him more frequently than the CBA allows if those clauses are legal. Make sure the insurance on the contract covers insobriety. Heck, if I’m the Rangers and seriously considering giving him 8 or 9 figures in the next few years then a few months of private investigators bills are a good investment.

waynetolleson
14 years ago

Josh Hamilton just cost himself a lot of money. The guy has injury problems, and if I’m an owner, I’m not going to invest long-term in a guy with a history of repeated substance abuse problems.

Chemical dependency is a difficult problem. Josh Hamilton is a recovering drug addict. He’s always going to be a drug addict. That’s a much bigger concern to anyone who cares about Josh Hamilton than his baseball career. Or it should be.

Randy
14 years ago

While it may be true that Hamilton abused both alcohol and other drugs at the same time, and that because of that history they might be linked, I don’t buy the “gateway” drug assumption-that’s just a slippery slope argument, which are typically unfounded. That being said, alcohol abuse is something that can affect on field performance, and that can affect one’s contract status.

A friend of mine suggested that it could be linked to the fact that Hamilton threw a ball into the stands and the fan died while trying to catch it.

David in DC
14 years ago
Reply to  Randy

If you don’t like the term “gateway drug”, fine, but very few people outside of Ron Washington wake up and say “Today I’m going to do some coke for the first time.” It is often (but not always and not in a straight line) a progression from legal drugs to perscription drugs to pot to harder drugs. Alcohol lowers inhibitions, often leading to drunk sex, ugle tattoos and, sometimes, other drugs use, though it takes a while to get up to injecting speedballs.

Joey B
14 years ago
Reply to  David in DC

I don’t think there is any such thing as a gateway drug. I think drugs are just the ultimate destination for some people. It’s kind of a rebellious nature in some that want to keep pushing the edges of the envelope.

BDF
14 years ago
Reply to  Randy

I don’t buy the gateway drug argument either, but it’s not relevant here. For an addict in Hamilton’s position, drinking and smoking crack equally activate an addictive process that puts his life at risk. See David Carr’s “Night of the Gun” for an interesting illustration of this problem. Carr was a hard-core coke addict, was clean for a decade, and built a great career. (He is now the media editor of the NY Times.) Then, out of the blue, he started drinking again. He had always drank, of course, but alcohol hadn’t been his problem. It didn’t matter. It triggered his addictive process and he nearly killed his daughters and himself.

Don osso buco
14 years ago
Reply to  Randy

Two primary features of alcoholism are denial and tolerance. Of course it’s a slippery slope socrates.

Warde
14 years ago

First he kills a fan and orphans a son

and now he drinks a beer? This guy is like Hitler and Vlad the Impaler rolled in one.

Nick
14 years ago

I’m guessing Jesus Christ’s ISO is sub .100, cause his power wasn’t enough to stop Hamilton from drinking.

Jason L
14 years ago
Reply to  Nick

Awful. Just awful.

And yet, I loved it…

Joey B
14 years ago

IRT Hamilton, take a wait-and-see attitude. Alcohol is an interesting drug that manifests itself in a number of ways. Some people grow accustomed (or addicted) to one or two drinks a day. Some won’t drink for a month, but will pull a 10-hour session when they go out. Others might go six months without a drink, but go on a week-long bender. He’s fallen off before. Let’s see if he climbs back on.

Cidron
14 years ago
Reply to  Joey B

and, with our forgiving society we will do just that, which will allow him to fall off the wagon again, only to be forgiven again, for how many times before he is just a washed up slob who cant hit a 80 mph arrow straight fastball when he knows its coming.

bstar
14 years ago
Reply to  Cidron

Yeah, forgiveness is a terrible virtue.

Me
14 years ago

Just read a comment above that referred to Hamilton’s “Accountability Partner.” I think they should change that name to “Accountabili-Buddy”

Colin
14 years ago

Dave Cameron cannot offer any insight into the Hamilton situation…..+1000.

noseeum
14 years ago

I’m sure the vast majority of posters on this site have a drink now and again. I for one can’t imagine a happy life without a little mind alteration now and again.

It’s gotta suck to be under 30 and think you’ll never get wasted again. Most people are able to handle it now and again and lead productive lives.

Completely understandable that Hamilton gives into temptation now and again. Let’s not blow it out of proportion. He didn’t hurt anyone, get arrested, or disappear into a crack den.

Get up, dust yourself off, and back to work, Mr. Hamilton. Good luck to you.

MNzach
14 years ago

@sandykazmir

I understand where you’re coming from but that is a little harsh. Its clear you don’t understand addiction AT ALL.

I am a recovering addict. Imagine living nearly every moment of every day denying yourself what your brain is telling you is the thing you want most in the world. Its not an easy battle but it can be won by anyone with enough willpower to do it. This is a story because all recovering addicts, famous athletes or not, are at risk every time they give into temptation, be it alcohol or any drug of choice. I hope this is an isolated incident because I am a fan but only time will tell.

james wilson
14 years ago

A guy like this, it’s amazing he spends a year or three sober at a stretch. His wife knows this. He makes a deal with himself every few hours for that year or three to kid himself he doesn’t need a drink or a hit. He knows it isn’t true.
If you do not know anyone like this, you don’t know shit, so shut up and no one will know you are a fool.

PKJ
14 years ago

Nobody ever wins their battle with substance abuse… They just live to see one more day.

I just hope he works his program and starts over from day one. The only requirement for Alcoholics Anonymous is “a desire to stop drinking.”

bpdelia
14 years ago

Lets just say ive been a recovering addict for about 20 years. The rlthing is well over 80% relapse. AA? 90 % relapse rate. WE ALL RELAPSE the mam narrative about lifetime abstinence is what causes all this teeth gnashing. He relapsed. Hes gonna relapse again, and again and again. As long as he gets busted and cant devolve into weeks or month long relapse bender’s he is fine. It happens. NO ONE doesn’t ever relapse. And that expectation sets us all up for failure. Every relapse becomes a shame spiral, begets a longer relapse, begets a shame spiral etç. Just stop it people. He is going to be fine if not held to a standard that literally 8-10 of 100 addicts ever attain. The amount of misinformation about relapse rates continues to astonish me.

20389438
14 years ago
Reply to  bpdelia

The relapse rate is high for people who waste time with crap like AA and 12-step programs, yeah. Do it the right way.

Mike P
14 years ago
Reply to  20389438

Well, I got help from AA and have been sober now for 24 years. I attended meetings for the first 2 years, and I don’t go anymore but I use the lessons I learned there to keep on the right track. I’m irreligious too, and I thought the program was quite helpful. It doesn’t work for everyone, but for some people it’s their life. Anyway, give the guy a break, relapses are common, it’s probably all for the best that he’s doing it in public where he can get noticed and get help from people who care about him.

Brian
14 years ago

It must be hard not to be able to have a drink or two without the world going crazy.

That said, I hope Josh is able to stay on the wagon. Not so much for his baseball contract, but more for his family.

Monroe
14 years ago

All we can really say about Josh Hamilton is that we know of two relapses in the last two years, he has one year left on his contract and he ain’t giving no hometown discount to the Rangers ….

adohaj
14 years ago

obviously its not good if kinsler showed up to try and stop him.

Troll
14 years ago

MNZach, glad to hear you’re sober and doing well. And I’m glad you pointed out that ANYONE can overcome addiction with will power. To be honest, I think Hamilton is a whiny selfish bitch that would rather drink and grab asses than be at home being a father to his 3 kids and a good husband. Selfish shithead.

Sailor Sam
14 years ago

When a shipmate falls, you help him up. You never know, he just might save your life someday.
I’ve seen it happen.